.But what Astrid doesn't recognize yet is an honest truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who possesses two boys-- can vouch for: The truth that your connection with your parents changes and advances as you both get older, and also ideally right. "Your globe facilities around [your children] when they are actually little ones [and] it is actually so much job yet beautiful," O'Hara says. "Later, you really skip that, considering that then you can't receive all of them to accomplish anything you desire them to do, given that they begin cultivating their very own thoughts, their personal opinions." And also inevitably, you wind up in the place O'Hara, whose boys are in their 20s and also 30s, discovers herself today, capable to learn from her kids. "They are actually just such cool youthful guys," she mentions. "I am actually certainly not their pal, however I really love possessing talks with them as well as getting to know just how they consider life.".